Chastity tasks: Tasks to assist you in your chastity training

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Tasks can also be used when a Dominant is busy or working or on vacation. They are super helpful when the Dominant is short on availability and time, but the submissive is not. Instead of the submissive waiting around until the Dominant is available, a task can be given for the submissive to focus on when the Dominant can’t be present. By using tasks in this way, the submissive can submit and focus on the Dominant even when the Dom is busy. Taking Away Privileges- The Dominant takes away things that the sub loves. This could be something small like taking away television time to something more extreme, not being allowed to get on social media for a certain period of time. I do rely on you being completely honest and telling me if you haven’t been a good boy and broken some rules. You should never be afraid to tell me anything. It is similar in our FLR. My wife also wants a man who is something she can outwardly be proud of. But she lets me be the man in the house I want to be there: a beta male, submissive and also a bit masochistic.

Remember that part of the fun is maybe being spotted with your device, and that you will not get the same rush and experience if you cheat. Condition 3. In the event that the task is sexual in nature and I am on my period, I may request to postpone the task until such time that I am comfortable performing it. Playing: I will adhere to any preference you might have regarding whether I bathe/shower at night or in the morning. another one is d10 - defines number of days you will need to do a specific task. For example you got 3. During the day, if I wish to change clothing or take an item off, I must ask permission to do so. Grooming/Hygiene:Whatever task you get, always remember: the tasks are here to keep you entertained. Only do tasks you are comfortable with, and always have an escape plan. You can decline a task at any time. We keep adding more and more tasks. When there are new questions in the task questionnaire, you'll see a notification in your dashboard. Keep your eyes on it, so you can keep all your preferences up-to-date, and we can give you the best possible tasks. Speech Restrictions- The submissive is not allowed to talk to the Dominant. For me, this would be a very painful punishment. I need a voice and to be unable to speak to him would be very painful. Fortunately, as you learn about ‘edging’ your partner, and what amount of tease and denial he can take, you will still be able to give him a ‘ruined orgasm’.

Even the simplest of tasks can become surprisingly challenging when a sissy has to do it over and over again, especially when a single mistake might mean all the difference between pleasure and punishment. You wouldn't think that a man could confuse a pair of panties with a bra or a garter belt, but ask him enough times, and he's sure to slip up sooner or later! That's before you demand he notices the details of such womanly garments, let alone commit their feminine features to memory, all the while distracted by suggestions of how weak women's underwear makes him. How long will he be able to focus?There are many physical types of punishments and those are the ones we typically think of. And while impact play can be a part of your BDSM relationship, the Dominant shouldn’t push the submissive with corporal punishments that push them beyond their limits. Safe words can be used during punishment if they are needed. The Dominant shouldn’t use punishment in moments of anger and they should remain in control. You don’t have to be cruel, and you certainly don’t have to listen to anyone tell you ‘you shouldn’t let him cum’. I never understood that as a working practice anyway. We will agree on an estimated time you will spend in chastity. If you’re new to this one or two weeks might be a good start. If you’re experienced we set the preferred limit higher. I do not take any responsibility for any injury, accident, or illness that occurs as a result of your time in chastity. There are a lot of things that might excite you during your time in chastity. It could be during cleaning when you go to bed – at any time. You might feel tempted to rub yourself a certain way to maybe get some form of stimuli, maybe a cotton swab seemed a little too tempting during cleaning. All attempts to touch or get some sort of relief will result in punishment. Lying also results in punishment, so when I ask you if you’ve been a good boy, you should always tell me the truth. The punishment will be either physical or financial, depending on what kind of sub you are. Maybe I’ll even extend your time in chastity... Keep in mind that I will sometimes combine them. That’s entirely my decision, so decide for yourself if that cotton swab really is that worth it.

If the man is expecting Her to do all of this then it is really missing the point. In FLRs, the power dynamic shifts so that the Women is in charge. However, this doesn’t mean that She has to now take complete responsibility for him and micro-manage his behaviours. Instead, he should be expected to manage his own behaviours in a way that always puts Her thoughts and feelings first. Her needs and desires are the priority for him. Start by reading User guide.pdf. It contains instructions on how to get started. And then play with one of the demo scripts. License: Condition 2. In the event that you have made a request for me to wear something that is not appropriate for work, I will make arrangements to wear one work-appropriate outfit during the day and change into the requested outfit during the evening. Now, She expects me to be a responsible adult who is able to self task and achieve the goals that support Her. Do I answer to Her at the end of the day? Yes of course I do. Do I worship Her? AbsolutelyChastityDungeon.com offers hundreds of tasks. Some are BDSM-related (bondage, dildos, buttplugs, etc.), some are conditioning (writing, listening), some are even punishments (did you abort your previous session? did you not do the task like I asked?). We also have more general tasks, including creative ones, like taking a photo, or drawing a given subject. If you like physical activities, we have a bunch of those lined up for you, too. Are you into sissification? You're in the right place. Enjoy wearing diapers? Welcome! Enjoy horror movies? Hah, you won't, after you're done with the horror-related tasks. Do you just want some casual, fun tasks? We have you covered. What about self-improvement? Oh yes, we can get you oriented in that direction as well. Along with doing all the household chores that you've been missing to do lately. In the world of orgasm control, where, when and whether you want your sub to orgasm or not is completely up to you. It’s great fun to try over long distance, or just to see how far you can push your sub.

During the early courtship, the Dominant will try and build the submissive’s confidence. As a submissive myself, this is crucial to helping me feel comfortable enough to test my limits. The Dominant can do things like ask for pictures in various stages of dress; starting from fully clothed and then gradually less. Reminding them that they are a beautiful, precious treasure to them. They can reassure them that they aren’t leaving. They will remind the submissive that they are safe and they cared for. Punishments can be corporal or reflective. Both work well, you need to figure out with your Dominant or submissive, which is best for you. Either way, corrections of missteps help deepen the connection between you and help strengthen the relationship. The Dominant can be more affectionate and the submissive can be more pleasing. Really, it’s for the submissive’s own good. When you’re working full time, the desire to submit can be impeded by a good number of obstacles. As a submissive who balances their full-time employment with their submissive role, one of their most concerns will always be finding a way to please their dominant while maintaining a strong professional image outside of the home. Regardless, it was difficult to find any information about balancing a professional life with the submissive desires, so this article is dedicated to the people who, wish to explore the D/s relationship dynamic and continue to work in the business world. Many times, a Dominant will use small tasks to test a submissive’s willingness and ability to obey. When the Dominant sees how the submissive responds to these tasks, they have a better idea of whether they want to continue the relationship and/or how much training the submissive will require. As a submissive, the why for a rule being in place or why I am being given some, what I think is, a random task is very important to me. I happily comply with small, seemingly insignificant tasks. The Dominant should explain why menial tasks are assigned or why they are required. When the submissive understands the purpose, they will be happier to comply.

I will adhere to any preferencethe Masterhave regarding which collar I am allowed to wear and for how long I may wear it each day.