Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back (Unfu*k Yourself)

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Unfortunately, you almost certainly do. Don’t worry, we’ll dive into how to stop self-sabotaging later in this Blink, but right now, let’s stay focused on how you might be self-sabotaging without even realizing it. There are times when inspiration and motivation will strike you suddenly, like when you’re in the shower or taking a walk. But, when it’s time to roll-up your sleeves and get the work done, get it done — even though you may not feel like working. You have to know what you “feel” like doing doesn’t matter. When it’s time to do the work — work — or you’ll end up wasting a good part of your day waiting for your muse. At the same time, you don’t want to completely neglect the small stuff that you do have control over. If you carelessly ignore some issues you should take care of, those things will become something much bigger. It’s like that leaky faucet — you let it slide and now a pipe bursts. Have you ever heard someone describing a self-sabotaging friend? We all nod along and agree, their life could be so great if they stopped getting in their own way. But…what exactly does self-sabotage entail?

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Sometimes it’s okay toprioritize other things over work. Saying no is healthy.Saying no means that you know your boundaries and can demand respect. The first two parts of D.A.R.E (delegate and automate) concentrated on making jobs that need to be done much easier, and the last two (Reduce and eliminate) focus on whether tasks need doing at all… Reduce There are clear situations when it is correct to use stop to do vs stop doing. When to use ‘stop to do’ something to] & [ˈkop͡s͜ to] (2nd p. sing. present imperative), «κόφτε το»& «κόψτε το» [ˈkofte to] & [ˈkop͡ste to] (2nd p. pl. present imperative) --> cut it out! It’s not always worth your time and energy to sweat the small stuff — especially when it’s something out of your control. For example, I had a friend who was furious about what happened with NFL wide receiver Antonio Brown. As soon as Brown signed with the Patriots, my friend spent the rest of the weekend complaining about the situation on social media. Then this friend had to spread the misery in a group text with friends that included me.As opposed to “winging it,” have a plan for you what you want to accomplish tomorrow or next week. Set a course for where you want to be next month or year. When you calendar a plan, you know precisely what has to be done and the actions needed to take you there. You’ll also have time to prepare and reduce the number of decisions you have to make — which saves your mental energy. 11. Waiting for your muse. Things change, life changes, and you can change along with them so that you have time to do what you want as well (or just time to breath!). TV– record series that you want to watch on TV – you don’t have to think about being there to watch at a specific time When I was in high school, I worked at a small, local grocery store. One day the power went out. I assumed that the store would close. Nope — the owner kept it open. We couldn’t accept credit cards, but we could still take cash. Most impressively, the owner would hold produce in his hands and estimate how much it weighed. Stop doing chore that actually don’t need doing at all (for example – you could eliminate the need to cook one night by batch cooking and using the freezer to store great food for when you need it)

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The moral of this story is that productive people don’t make excuses. They’re not only responsible for their actions, but they also forge ahead and use their resourcefulness to get still things done. 7. Being like Pavlov’s dogs. Ahah, at first look it doesn't seem to have any meaning but if you have a plant, you'll finish your work when you'll have planted it, so it's like to say "get your work done and go away", "stop doing that". At least, this is the first logical explanation that comes to mind.Off the top of my head, I wonder how you would say something like " stop doing that, mostly considered irritating and troublesome, to me" in your language. Have you ever wrestled a sofa up your driveway and into your house on your own, just because you didn’t realize you could ask for help? No? Delegate to your partner– you are a partnership, so try and equal out the amount each of you does each week. Take into account work as well as chores in this equation as it’s fair enough to split chores less equally if one of you works more.