No More MR Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life

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Namely, Nice Guys have usually experienced abandonment in their early years and do not want to live through that experience again. Neither is this book concerned with living an honorable, respectable life, or about the meaning of manhood in general (though it is intentionally dedicated to men): it is nothing but an obvious diagnosis, and equally obvious application of initiative and common sense aimed at gratifying one's desires (labelled as 'needs') at any cost. The righteousness of the end aside, the book is devoid of all scientific information and analysis, and the means employed are nothing beyond the basic usage of the will and the mind. In general, people are not drawn to perfection in others. People are drawn to shared interests, shared problems, and an individual’s life energy. Humans connect with humans. Hiding one’s humanity and trying to project an image of perfection makes a person vague, slippery, lifeless, and uninteresting.”Published in numerous languages, No More Mr. Nice Guy is now one of the all-time best-selling books in men’s personal development. As we said in the “Who Should Read” section, No More Mr. Nice Guy is a diluted version of The Rational Male– or, better yet, the latter one radicalizes many of its core ideas. there is plenty for everyone. Everything we need is flowing by us — all we have to do is get out of the way of our own small thinking and let it come. Look”

If nice guys are prone to subtly manipulating others into meeting their needs (ineffectively), then Dr. Glover’s antidote is to parent themselves by making their own needs a priority. Instead of being passive and manipulative, the author prescribes being healthily selfish. My Favourite No More Mr. Nice Guy Quotes Telling the truth is not a magic formula for having a smooth life. But living a life of integrity is actually easier than living one built around deceit and distortion.”This book is low in quality content. I gave it the benefit of the doubt at the beginning, but after three chapters I had to stop. I cannot believe this author is a counselor. He shows very little understanding of evidence-based psychology.

Every Nice Guy is unique,” writes Glover, “but all have a cluster of similar characteristics. These traits are the result of a ‘script,’ often formed in childhood, that guides their lives. While other men may have one or two of these traits, Nice Guys seem to possess a significant number.” This book constantly tells men that it's OK to be selfish and put yourself first. Let's get real, it's OK for every human despite gender. I was expecting a few specific issues and approaches. We have pioneered the largest worldwide conversation about what it means to be a good man in the 21st century. The author explains how this cultural development came about. For generations boys learned from their fathers about how to be men by working alongside them in the fields. When society became urbanized this took men away from the home and left boys to be raised by their mothers. With Teachers also being primarily women, boys were growing up having to learn about how to be men from women. This of course led to some internalized distortions of what that meant. From vindictive women who wanted to teach their sons to not be "like" their father to women who merely could not understand boys' overly physical and disruptive behavior, women did what they knew best and raised boys to be and act in ways more similar to women. This of course creates an endless list of identification problems for boys when they come of age. Recovery from the Nice Guy Syndrome is dependent on revealing one’s self and receiving support from safe people. It is essential, therefore, that men who want to break free from the Nice Guy Syndrome find safe people to assist them in this process.”

No More Mr Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life

The book explains how some men take up the role of caretaking and aspire to be liked by people as a way of trying to be an alpha male. However, these nice guys do not understand why other people do not share a similar road map to life, or why it is still hard for them to reach their full potential. Good sex consists of two people taking full responsibility for meeting their own needs. It has no goal. It is free of agendas and expectations. Rather than being a performance, it is an unfolding of sexual energy. It is about two people revealing themselves in the most intimate and vulnerable of ways. Good sex occurs when two people focus on their own pleasure, passion, and arousal, and stay connected to those same things in their partner. All of these dynamics allow good sex to unfold in unpredictable, spontaneous, and memorable ways.”